issues

had a rather fruitful and fun session in sch today! was studying and discussing SLS in a classroom today with dee and weixuan.. we managed to cover 3/4 of everything!! :D so we jus gota wrap up tmr and we should be ready! throughout the studying session today.. we were poking fun at each other and singing along to crazy songs like the rainbow connection.. unfortunately.. we din realise we were disturbing other people in the other classrooms.. so at 4 plus.. this year 3 (that's what they told me) girl suddenly opened our door and started giving us a piece of her mind..

"do you know i've been trying to study and bearing with u guys since 10am??! ... blah blah"

and then.. before we could say anything.. she slammed the door.. stunned.. we were speechless.. after a while.. we decided that although we were in the wrong.. this girl has some major issues.. denise was quite pissed off and wanted to go over to scold her..

anyway.. this is to her:

we understand that being in year 3.. you are goin through alot of stress especially since the exams are drawing near.. however as year 1s.. so are we.. fortunately for us.. we do know how to destress by having fun while studying.. sure we may have gone overboard with the noise but this wouldn't have happened if u could come over and give us a gentle reminder earlier on instead of waiting till the late afternoon cos we din realise we were making that much noise.. (maybe like at 10am.. but this is a little difficult for you since we only met at like 1130? :P) besides we were not in the library so we didn't really see the point to keep that silent.. (our point in goin to a classroom was becos we wanted to make some noise when we needed to destress) if u really wanted a peaceful place to study.. you should have gone to the library..

although you were pretty angry and stressed up (you sure do look it..) you do not need to slam our door jus to prove ur anger.. firstly.. it was rather childish.. and not to mention uncivilised too.. we were feeling quite bad at first but the moment u slammed the door.. those feelings vanished and we were indignant at the way u treated us..

so next time if u want to get ur point across without coming across as too worked up or stressed or childish or whatsoever.. do it with courtesy and politeness.. that way.. people will treat u with respect and return the courtesy..

peace